It Can't Be True

Ever lose contact with someone over time and find yourself wondering what they are doing now? That happened to me a couple weeks ago. I was curious what my old friend Danielle was doing. I tried looking on Facebook, LinkedIn, Pinterest even; but no luck. I could only assume she was in a theater group acting and performing like she loved to do so much. I pictured her hanging out downtown and uptown, visiting trendy restaurants and wearing the perfect outfit. This girl had it all...including an outgoing personality, great sense of humor, business skills. Now that I am thinking about, I still have a necklace and bracelet set that I bought from her when she started her jewelry line.

Today I received the shock of a lifetime. Danielle was dead. It saddens me to even write it, I feel like it is a lie. Danielle was in a car accident a few weeks ago and drowned in a pond while still in her car. I can't help but picture what her last moments must have been like. Life seems so unfair, why would such an amazing soul be taken so young? I can't help regret not trying harder to track her down. I still knew where her mom lived, I could have written a letter. I regret not reconnecting with her again. She was one of those people who you will remember always.

Danielle and I worked together for a number of years. Every Monday night we would order and devour a large Pizza Hut stuffed crust pepperoni pizza. Every Monday for years. We went on our first cruise together. We were giddy running around the ship - drinking too much, staying out too late, sleeping in too late, and seeing some amazing sights in the Caribbean. We laid out in the sun on rafts in her pool, I went to her theater performance in Anoka, hung out with her and her boyfriend at the time that we just happened to meet on the cruise. I remember being in London and emailing her. Danielle was a art major and really knew everything about fine art. I emailed her before walking through the Tate Modern and asked who I should look out for and make a mental note to really stop and reflect on. I remember her giving me a list of names of artists. Because I knew art was so important to her I bought a print of Manet's. It was beautiful and different at the same time. I wonder if she still had it all these years later.

She was so young to be gone already. It really makes me appreciate every moment I have as you never know when it may be your last. Bless her heart and her family. She was an amazing friend, amazing person and will be greatly missed. Until we meet again.

Plum Tree

Sticking to the theme of saving money on food, I decided to purchase a plum tree this summer. I don't even eat plums, but my family does. I figured that in addition to saving money on fresh fruit that we can eat, can or freeze; my daughter will learn where food really comes from. I will have to start researching recipes now...can you make a Plum Crisp?

Apple Tree

In an effort to save money, I have decided to try to plant fruit trees in my front yard. We don't have a whole lot of space, so I wanted to be smart about the fruit trees that I pick. My first attempt has been with the purchase of a Honeycrisp Apple tree. These are absolutely delicious....and about $5/pound in the grocery store. There is no way that I can afford to purchase those whenever I have the craving. So for a $50 investment I purchased and planted a tree. I figure I only have to grow and pick 10 pounds of apples before I'm even. The down side of having fruit trees is that you have to wait a few years for the tree to develop and produce excellent apples. To me- it's worth it to have years of fresh Honeycrisp Apples right in my front yard.

For more information on Honeycrisp Apples, visit: http://www.extension.umn.edu/distribution/horticulture/components/5877_01.html

Potato Plants

Great Idea:

While I'm no urban homesteader, I'm making slow progress each summer to growing more of the food my family eats.  This year I tried planting potatoes for the first time. The process really seemed to easy.  You merely dig a hole, drop the potato in, and fill it up.  Within a week, I already had potato plants sprouting.  Other than watering them regularly, there was virtually no maintenance needed.  About a week ago the plant began to wilt.  It was then that I decided to dig up the ground and see what (if anything) grew.  I was amazed to fine that after only planting 6 potatoes, I now had 40 fresh, new potatoes!  Over the next few days I was busy peeling my potatoes and cooking up some delicious mashed potatoes using some chives that I was growing as well.  Unfortunately, my garlic plant didn't fare so well, so we had to run to the store for that addition.

Wild by Cheryl Strayed

I have to admit that this was not the type of book I typically read. I am not much of an outdoors person; I don't like bugs, or getting hot, or sleeping in a tent or having to walk long distances carrying all of my possesions on my back. Okay, I have never actually done that last one, but it sounds like something I would dislike. I was drawn into this book though because the author is also from Minnesota and I like reading about places I am familiar with. Knowing that she was overcoming a struggle also made me feel connected to her as I was going through my own struggles. Long story short, thks book was wonderful. Her ability to recall such specific detail of her adventure was amazing. There were so many times within the book that I felt as though I was right there with her in the middle of nowhere, running out of water and needing to find a place to sleep for the night. She is an amazing, strong women and she has motivated me to challenge myself more. I would definately recommend reading this book.

Thirty.

One day older. 

A new day, a new decade, and new box to check on the demographic section of any survey, a new start.  I'm hoping to make my thirties even better than my twenties.  It's funny...you grow up thinking 30 is SO old and of all the things you are going to do before then.  Well, I haven't accomplished all of those things, but to be honest, I'm darn close.  I'm not sure why I spent the last year worrying and being sad about turning 30...maybe because it means that it's time to grow up.  I'm no longer a kid in her 20's who just "doesn't know better".  Now it's time to step up and be a grown up.  A part of me expected today to be monumental.  Maybe not fireworks and streamers, but some excitement would have been nice.  Instead it was like any typical Saturday.  Nothing out of the ordinary, no birthday party, no cake, no presents, no breakfast in bed, just a regular Saturday.  Maybe that's what I get for thinking today was going to be amazing.

Tropical Lunch Box

Another Good Deal!


I made my weekly stop at my favorite new thrift store.  As my luck would have it, they were hosting a big sale.  In addition to the many great deals on clothes that I got I spotted this adorable, brand new L.L. Bean lunchbox.  My little peanut will love it!  It has zippered sides and insulation inside.  


Retail Price: $15.95
I Paid: $0.50


I Saved:  $15.45